Drug abuse intervention is sometimes necessary when someone needs help with a
drug abuse problem. Drug Intervention could be the most powerful and successful method
yet for helping people accept assistance for their drug abuse problem. Interventions can be done with love and respect in a non-confrontational, non-judgmental
manner.
Interventions are difficult and delicate matters and it is important
that they be done properly. No intervention should be undertaken without advice
and counsel of a professional experienced in the intervention process.
The Steps of Intervention
1. Stop all "rescue missions." Family members often try to protect
an addict from the results of his behavior by making excuses to others about
his addiction problem and by getting him out of drug-related jams. It is important
to stop all such rescue attempts immediately, so that the addict will fully
experience the harmful effects of his use-and thereby become more motivated
to stop.
2. Don't enable him. Sometimes family members feel sorry for the addict or
tend to avoid the addict, let him come and go as he pleases. This comes across
to the addict as a reward-after all, all he wants is to be left alone. Be
careful not to reward by paying his bills, bailing him out of jail, letting
him stay for free, etc. This kind of reward creates out exchange and criminal
behavior.
3. Time your drug addiction intervention. If possible, plan to talk with the
addict when he is straight, when all of you are in a calm frame of mind and
when you can speak privately.
4. Be specific. Tell the family member that you are concerned about his drug
or alcohol addiction and want to be supportive in getting help. Back up your
concern with examples of the ways in which his drug use has caused problems
for you, including any recent incidents.
5. State the consequences. Tell the family member that until he gets help,
you will carry out consequences-not to punish the addict, but to protect yourself
from the harmful effects of the addiction. These may range from refusing to
be with the person when they are under the influence, to having them move
out of the house. Do NOT make any threats you are not prepared to carry out.
The basic intention is to make the addict's life more uncomfortable if he
continues using drugs than it would be for him to get help.
6. Find strength in numbers with the help of family members, relatives and
friends to confront the addict as a group but choose one person to be the
initial spokesperson. It will be much more effective for the others to simply
be there nodding their heads, than it would be for everyone to talk at once
and "gang up on him." Remember the idea is to make it safe for him
to come clean and seek help.
7. Listen. If during your drug addiction intervention the addict begins asking
questions like; Where would I have to go? For how long? This is a sign that
he is reaching for help. Do not directly answer these questions. Instead have
him call in to talk to a professional. Support him. Don't wait. Once you've
gotten his agreement, get him admitted immediately. Therefore, you should
have a bag packed for him, any travel arrangements made and prior acceptance
into a program.